Takeaway: BDSM is not only about having your freak on. Often, kinky people like their play without intercourse.

The very first time I visited a BDSM celebration, I happened to be anticipating lots of grunting, moaning, and, well, intercourse. Yes, there have been plenty of these plain things, needless to say, but In addition discovered one thing brand brand new: that many people choose their kink without intercourse, many thanks quite definitely. Ever since then, i have entered in a sexless d/s relationship myself, leading us to seek out other types of kinky circumstances where intercourse is not required – and it is also frowned upon, often. (more…)

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